Monday, May 20, 2013

On My Honor (by Marion Dane Bauer)

Reviewed by Christina Miller

Summary

            This short novel focuses on one tragic day in the lives of best friends Joel and Tony. The boys, who have known each other since they were babies, couldn’t be more opposite in temperament: Tony is the adventurous daredevil, while Joel is the careful rule-follower. One day, Tony dares Joel to climb the bluffs with him at the state park. Rather than risk being thought a coward, Joel evades Tony by asking his father’s permission to ride to the state park, secretly hoping that his father would give them a flat denial. To the consternation and surprise of Joel, his father grants his permission on one condition: the boys must promise not to go anywhere near the notoriously dangerous river. Joel promises his father on his “honor” that he would stay away from the river and reluctantly makes the twelve-mile trek to the park with his venturesome friend. When the boys arrive at the state park, Tony decides to raise the stakes. He dares Joel to get in the river with him. Against Joel’s better judgment, he joins Tony in the water. Nervous about disobeying his father’s directive and worried about the river’s strong current, Joel gets into an argument with his friend, who threatens to leave the river to climb the dangerous bluffs. To assuage his angry friend, Joel challenges Tony to swim with him out to the sandbar. Tony agrees and the boys begin the perilous swim out. Joel has to fight hard against the current to make it to the other side; he turns to find his friend has gone missing. It is at this moment that Joel comes to the horrible realization that Tony couldn’t swim and the “forbidden river” has caused his friend to drown. After an agonizing search for Tony in the river by himself and with the help of some passersby, Joel promises to go straight to the police barracks to report the incident, but instead heads home. Guilty and torn with grief, Joel decides to cover up his involvement in his friend’s death to protect his “honor.” He denies having seen Tony at the river to his and Tony’s parents. Overcome with shame, Joel is torn by his guilty conscience and the repercussions that could happen if he tells the truth. With the gentle help of his father, Joel is finally able to make sense of the tragedy and to face the truth for what it is.

Interest

            The book will very likely appeal to a broad range of readers: the focus on everyday adolescent life will appeal to those in middle adolescence and its heavy thematic material will appeal to those in late adolescence. Adolescent girls will be drawn to the book for its well-developed and thought-provoking characters, and boys will be drawn to the book for its male protagonist and moments of action and adventure.

Developing Well-Adjusted Readers

Progressive Independence and Separation from Parents: One of the main conflicts of the book is Joel’s conflicting desire to obey his father’s instructions and please his adventure-seeking friend. After the tragedy, Joel finds himself angry at his father for allowing them to go to the park in the first place. But, Joel must come to recognize his own culpability in the death of his friend and face the repercussions for his own personal choices apart from his father’s influence. The adolescent reader will be inspired to carefully consider how they would respond in a similar situation.

Changed Relationship with Peers: Although Joel and Tony have been best friends all of their lives, Joel is beginning to make a clear divide between his parents’ and his friend’s influence on his actions. Joel knows better, but he begrudgingly consents to Tony’s crazy ideas to keep the peace between them. This is a clear representation of the fact that Joel’s friendship with Tony supersedes his relationship with his father – to his and Tony’s detriment. Adolescent readers will likely be able to relate to Joel’s inner conflict of trying to please both sides and should be able to discern the repercussions that come from having an imbalanced priority in relationships.  

Achieving an Integrated System of Values: Joel has always been a rule follower. He does not take risks. He has a good relationship with his attentive parents and aims to keep it that way. When he promises to obey his father’s command on his “honor,” he means it. But, when he is confronted with this horrific tragedy, his feelings of guilt and shame overshadow his sense of duty and honor. It isn’t until after Joel’s father blames himself for the accident that Joel takes full responsibility for his part in his friend’s senseless death. He comes full circle – his character and behavior are now consistent with his value system. Even if they haven’t faced a similar situation, many teens will be able to relate to Joel’s fear of owning up to the truth in the face of such severe repercussions. His example should encourage them to act consistently upon their values regardless of the outcome.

Issues

            This book is easy-to-read, but it is not an easy read, and the wise Christian school teacher will be sensitive to that distinction. In light of the heavy thematic material, the teacher will want to be careful to openly discuss the ideas of death, guilt, despair, and grief that are so prevalent throughout the book. The teacher may also want to focus on idea of lying and its consequences. Another issue that arises late in the book is the author’s nebulous view of heaven. A teacher would be wise to generate a healthy discussion on the appropriate theology of the afterlife and how it compares to Joel’s idea of afterlife in the book.

Recommendations

            On a positive note, this book won a Newbery Honor Award in 1987, which distinguishes it as a worthwhile read. The characters are believable and engaging. The plot is interesting and provocative. The difference between right and wrong is clearly defined in the novel, and it is clear that the author believes that right (truth) is what is good and honorable. The author handles the sensitive subject material with simplicity and tact. I would highly recommend this for reading by those mature adolescents that can approach its heavy themes with discernment and understanding. I thoroughly enjoyed this book – it is a story that isn’t easily forgotten.